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Puppet Master

Driven by an insatiable need for control over your thoughts, emotions, and actions, this character is a master manipulator.

The Intimidator

Often relies on aggressive tactics to get their way, using threats to assert power. This type is the most likely to have a history of extremely concerning behavior in their past.

The Self-Obsessed

Thrives on admiration, constantly seeking validation from others to feed their inflated sense of self-worth. They often present themselves as charming and charismatic.

The Drill Sergeant

Rigid, demanding, and highly controlling. They have a clear vision of how things should be and expect everyone around them to follow their rules and standards without question.

Subtle Saboteur

Avoids direct confrontation, but still manages to express their frustration or resentment through indirect actions. Use sarcasm, procrastination, and subtle undermining.

Master of Everything

Has an excessive need to be in control and always be right. They view themselves as superior to you and use various tactics to maintain this sense of grandiosity.

The Clinger

Has a strong emotional need to be constantly close to you. They often struggle to handle their own emotions and rely on you to help them feel stable.

The Addict

Struggles with maintaining emotional stability and often turns to unhealthy coping mechanisms and may seem to be constantly caught in cycles of highs and lows.

The Future Faker

The Future Faker is someone who draws you in with enticing promises about a perfect future together, creating a vision of a shared life—talking about marriage, family, and big dreams.

The Freewheeler

The Freewheeler is full of energy and brings a sense of adventure to everything they do. When something sparks their interest, they can focus intensely and immerse themselves...for a while.

The Thinker

The Thinker is deeply analytical and values structure and logic. They approach the world with a focus on detail and consistency, often thinking things through in a methodical and organized way.

Emotional Invalidator

Dismisses or undermines your feelings and experiences. They often belittle, ignore, or minimize your emotional needs, leaving you feeling unheard and unimportant.

Emotionally Distant

Has difficulty truly opening up and connecting on a deeper level. While they may seem charming and engaging at first, they often keep an emotional distance, leaving you feeling unsure about where you stand.

The Rake

The Rake is charming, confident, and magnetic, drawing you in with their attention and bold promises. They are intense, but their behavior is self-serving and superficial.

Perpetual Victim

The Perpetual Victim is a player who frequently brings up past traumas and hardships, using them as an excuse to justify harmful behavior.

THE PUPPET MASTER

Charming and smooth, the Puppet Master excels at making you believe you're in control, while secretly pulling the strings behind the scenes. Driven by an insatiable need for control over your thoughts, emotions, and actions, they are a master manipulator. Using a combination of charm, deceit, and psychological tactics, they exploit your vulnerabilities to get what they want, often convincing you that their intentions are harmless or even benevolent. This type excels in creating confusion, leading you to question your judgment and your sense of reality. Ultimately, The Puppet Master is an emotional conman—exploitative and deceitful—leaving a trail of hurt, confusion, and broken trust in their wake. Lacking empathy and guided by self-interest, they thrive on the power gained through manipulation, using others as mere tools to fulfill their needs.

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THE INTIMIDATOR

The Intimidator is someone who seeks control in their relationships by using fear, manipulation, and intimidation. They often rely on aggressive tactics to get their way, using threats or the potential for violence to assert power. With a history of criminal behavior, they may be involved in gangs, extremist groups, or other forms of organized crime. While they may not always act violently, their presence and actions create an environment of fear and tension, making it difficult for others to feel safe or in control of their own lives. The effects of this behavior can be long-lasting, eroding trust and emotional well-being, and leaving those around them feeling vulnerable and powerless.

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THE SELF-OBSESSED

The Self-Obssessed thrives on admiration, constantly seeking validation from others to feed their inflated sense of self-worth. They often present themselves as charming and charismatic, drawing people in with their confidence and apparent success. However, beneath the surface, they struggle with a fragile ego and an insatiable need for attention and praise. They lack empathy and are primarily concerned with their own needs and desires, often disregarding the feelings and needs of those around them. Relationships with them can feel one-sided, as they expect others to cater to their wants, yet offer little in return. Over time, their lack of genuine emotional connection and manipulative behavior can leave others feeling neglected, unimportant, and drained.

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THE DRILL SERGEANT

The Drill Sergeant is rigid, demanding, and highly controlling. They have a clear vision of how things should be and expect everyone around them to follow their rules and standards without question. Often appearing confident and assertive, they take charge of situations, sometimes to the point of overbearingness. They demand excellence and obedience, and if they don’t get it, they can become frustrated or dismissive. Their relationships are structured around their need for control, and they struggle with flexibility or adapting to others' needs. While they may seem reliable and strong on the surface, their lack of emotional warmth and sensitivity to others' feelings can make those around them feel restricted, unsupported, and constantly under pressure.

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THE MASTER OF EVERYTHING

Master of Everything has an excessive need to be in control and always be right. They view themselves as superior to you and use various tactics to maintain this sense of grandiosity, including verbal put-downs, criticism, and blame-shifting. They are highly defensive, never admitting fault or accepting responsibility for their actions. They employ a patronizing tone and belittle you to feel powerful and maintain control. They can become hostile when challenged or threatened. Unlike some others with similar tendencies, they do not need excessive validation and are generally consistent.

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THE SUSPICIOUS STRATEGIST

The Suspicious Strategist is constantly on edge, forever looking over their shoulder and expecting betrayal at every turn. They have a deeply ingrained sense of mistrust and often see hidden motives where none exist. This person thrives on suspicion, viewing the world through a lens of paranoia. They are quick to judge others and often assume the worst in every situation, leading them to act defensively and sometimes aggressively. They’re often hesitant to make decisions without overanalyzing the potential consequences, which may lead to indecisiveness or erratic behavior. While they might keep their emotions tightly controlled on the surface, beneath it all lies a constant state of fear and insecurity. Relationships with them can feel like a minefield, where you are constantly walking on eggshells, unsure whether your every word or action is being scrutinized or misunderstood.

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THE SUBTLE STRATEGIST

The Subtle Saboteur is someone who avoids direct confrontation, but still manages to express their frustration or resentment through indirect actions. They may not openly argue or address issues head-on but use sarcasm, procrastination, and subtle undermining to communicate their dissatisfaction. While they may appear agreeable on the surface, their true feelings are often hidden under a veil of politeness or passivity.
In relationships, they often withhold affection, use guilt-tripping, or give backhanded compliments to keep you off balance. The Subtle Saboteur may leave you wondering where you stand, as they seldom express their true thoughts or feelings directly. Over time, this leads to confusion, frustration, and a sense of emotional disconnection. Their lack of clear communication makes it difficult to resolve conflicts, leaving you feeling ignored, invalidated, or uncertain of what’s really going on.

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THE CLINGER

The Clinger is someone who has a strong emotional need to be constantly close to you. They often struggle to handle their own emotions and rely on you to help them feel stable. When there’s any emotional distance, they can become anxious, upset, or even angry, which puts a lot of pressure on the relationship.
This type has difficulty respecting personal space or boundaries. They tend to get emotionally tangled up with you, making it hard for them to separate their feelings from yours. They may constantly seek your attention, approval, and reassurance, which can make you feel responsible for managing their emotional needs. If they feel ignored or distant, they might react strongly, leaving you feeling drained and trapped in their emotional ups and downs.

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THE ADDICT

The Addict is someone who struggles with maintaining emotional stability and often turns to unhealthy coping mechanisms, such as substance use, excessive work, or other compulsive behaviors, to manage their inner turmoil. They may seem to be constantly caught in cycles of highs and lows, often being charming and affectionate one moment, only to withdraw or become erratic the next.
Emotionally, The Addict is unpredictable, which can make the relationship feel like an emotional rollercoaster. Their dependency on external sources for emotional support can leave you feeling like you're walking on eggshells, unsure of what to expect next. They may demand a lot of your attention and energy but can be difficult to rely on when you need them most.

This type often has trouble taking responsibility for their actions, blaming external factors for their behavior instead. Their emotional inconsistency can make it challenging for you to feel secure, as you’re constantly adjusting to their emotional needs and never sure where you stand.

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THE PARENTAL SEEKER

"The Parental Seeker" is initially charming with their flattery, attention, gifts, affection, and a youthful, endearing demeanor. However, beneath the surface, there is often a deep emotional void stemming from unresolved trauma, particularly related to their relationship with their mother. This unresolved pain leaves them emotionally dependent, lacking self-confidence, and relying heavily on others for support. Their childlike perspective on the world makes it difficult for them to manage responsibilities on their own. In relationships, they may turn to you for emotional reassurance, and their jealousy or possessiveness can emerge when they feel insecure. You may find yourself shouldering most of the practical tasks, like managing household responsibilities, finances, and other life duties, leading to an unbalanced dynamic where you feel the weight of the relationship’s upkeep.

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THE FUTURE FAKER

The Future Faker is someone who draws you in with enticing promises about a perfect future together, creating a vision of a shared life—talking about marriage, family, and big dreams. They make it sound like everything is just around the corner, and you get emotionally invested in the potential of it all. But when it comes time to act on those promises, they fall short. Their plans are vague, their commitments are fleeting, and nothing ever changes.

This person keeps you stuck in a cycle of hope and disappointment, offering just enough to keep you hooked, but never actually following through. They may get you to believe that the future will be bright and fulfilling, but in reality, they lack the intention or the effort to make those promises a reality.

Their behavior can leave you feeling deceived, questioning what’s real in the relationship. You might even begin to doubt your own perception of reality as their empty promises chip away at your trust. Over time, this pattern of false hope can erode your self-esteem and leave you feeling unimportant, confused, and uncertain about where you really stand.

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THE FREEWHEELER

The Freewheeler is full of energy and brings a sense of adventure to everything they do. When something sparks their interest, they can focus intensely and immerse themselves in it with incredible passion and enthusiasm, almost like a hyper-focus. This burst of energy can make them seem dynamic and engaged, as if nothing else matters but the task or conversation at hand. However, when their attention shifts elsewhere, they can struggle to maintain focus and often forget about ongoing responsibilities or commitments.

This pattern may feel unpredictable because, although they can give you their undivided attention when they're fully engaged, they might also seem distant, distracted, or disorganized when their attention is elsewhere. The challenge often lies in their ability to stay engaged with long-term goals or everyday routines. They may jump between interests or forget important details, leading to frustration or a sense of instability in the relationship.

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THE THINKER

The Thinker is deeply analytical and values structure and logic. They approach the world with a focus on detail and consistency, often thinking things through in a methodical and organized way. In relationships, they can be incredibly reliable, thoughtful, and principled, offering a sense of stability. However, their focus on logic can sometimes make emotional or social cues difficult to navigate, leading to misunderstandings or challenges in responding to emotional needs.

While they can be incredibly empathetic and loyal in their own way, they may not always express emotions in ways that you expect. This might make them seem distant or detached at times, not because they don’t care, but because they process emotions differently and may find it difficult to connect through emotional expressions. They may also struggle with spontaneous social interactions, preferring routines or clear, direct communication.

Their strength lies in their deep commitment to fairness, order, and respect, which makes them dependable and trustworthy partners. But relationships with them may sometimes require patience and understanding, as they tend to process things at their own pace and can sometimes miss the subtle emotional nuances you might expect in a relationship.

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THE EMOTIONAL INVALIDATOR

The Emotional Invalidator seeks to dismiss or undermine your feelings and experiences. He often belittles, ignores, or minimizes your emotional needs, leaving you feeling unheard and unimportant. This pattern can lead to growing self-doubt, diminished self-esteem, and a sense of powerlessness in the relationship. He may use tactics like gaslighting, shifting blame, or denying your emotions in order to maintain control and avoid accountability for his actions. When he tells you that you are overly "emotional" and that he is "logical," he's gaslighting you—because this person is far from logical. His behavior is often a deliberate manipulation to make you doubt your reality.

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THE EMOTIONALLY DISTANT

The Emotionally Distant is someone who has difficulty truly opening up and connecting on a deeper level. While they may seem charming and engaging at first, they often keep an emotional distance, leaving you feeling unsure about where you stand. They may avoid serious conversations, brush off your emotional needs, or deflect intimacy, making you feel like you’re always trying to chase something that’s just out of reach.

This type often struggles with vulnerability and emotional expression, even though they might seem perfectly capable of maintaining surface-level connections. The Emotionally Distant tends to push away when things get too close or serious, often leaving you feeling like you're the only one doing the emotional work in the relationship. They may also have a habit of not following through on promises or commitments, which can add to the sense of instability.

Though they might care for you in their own way, their inability to fully invest emotionally can lead to feelings of frustration, confusion, and even loneliness. You might find yourself wondering if they're truly interested or if you're just a placeholder until something better comes along.

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THE RAKE

The Rake is charming, confident, and magnetic, drawing you in with their attention and bold promises. On the surface, they seem like the perfect catch—fun and exciting—but beneath that charm lies self-serving behavior. While they may appear emotionally available, they tend to keep relationships superficial, seeking validation while offering little in return.

The Rake enjoys the thrill of the chase, but avoids deeper connections. They use their charm to keep you hooked without fully committing, often leaving you feeling unimportant or confused about where you stand. In the end, the relationship feels like a game, leaving you frustrated and disillusioned.

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THE PERPETUAL VICTIM

The Perpetual Victim is a player who frequently brings up past traumas and hardships, using them as an excuse to justify harmful behavior. They often shift blame onto others for their problems, refusing to take responsibility for their actions. Despite constantly portraying themself as a victim, the Perpetual Victim never truly empathizes with or acknowledges the struggles of other women. Their self-centered nature and lack of genuine empathy make it difficult to form meaningful connections. Instead, they manipulate emotionally, resort to passive-aggressive tactics, and play the victim role to make you feel guilty or responsible for their unhappiness.

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